kong meng xiong , 21 , of st. paul , minnesota has been charged with kidnapping , third-degree criminal sexual conduct and false imprisonment .
the girl 's family reported the kidnapping on sunday and that they opposed to their daughter marrying xiong , whom she was dating , because of their age differences .
xiong allegedly threw the girl 's ipad against a wall at her family 's home and then ripped her sweatpants as he dragged her into his car .
the girl 's parents called xiong 's parents and demanded that they give them their daughter back .